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From there to here, some questions…

Maurna tagged me on some questions she received today from another fellow blogger so I am going to take a moment to address these.

What am I working on at the moment?

Working on? Uh. Well. At the moment I have about a million and one things going at the same time. I’ve restarted studying full time and I’m working full time – so between having my head in a text book, going out on restaurant reviews with my urban family, cycling across a few suburbs to invade the Dojo which houses my rope family to make impromptu moosh to feed peoples and trying to get over a recent break up… well. Oh shit, and my blog. Because I have all these posts that have been plaguing my dreams like a tsunami of words.

Oh oh and I’m going to start a new craft project. A tonberry. As Christmas presents for my Final Fantasy geeks.

How does my work differ from others in this genre?

Well, when I write I don’t hold much back. You get the raw, the ugly, the “did she just say that? I can’t believe she said that” moments… Just check out my guide on How to eat pussy 101 – it’s gone a bit viral on tumblr. YAY! Edumacating the masses on the delicate yet awesomely fun cunnilingus!

I also happily answer questions through people sending me emails about certain kinky things that they want help with, which I think is sweet. Thank you for engaging!

Why do I write what I do?

Because after the horrible episode of those stupid books – I think kink needs to be spread to the world in a more realistic way. Yeah, I’ve been kinky for a hell of a long time, it’s just who I am and it’s what I do. It doesn’t mean that I don’t function like everyone else. Just slightly more off kilter.

And that’s not a bad thing.

How does my writing process work?

I don’t have a process. I know, shocking.

I have idea bubbles that pop up every so often that I try to stick on my notes on my phone to remind me to write about later. And then promptly forget about them. Most times though I usually need to vent and I’ll hop on the blog at work during lunch time and have a wee rant about various issues, from feminism to racism to gender politics. Or gaming. Or sex. Mainly sex. Sometimes travelling. But usually sex.

Sex is important.

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 Now for some other’s that I think need a quick mention. They are entertaining, sweet, intriguing and some interact on a variety of subjects sometimes.

Whether they answer the questions or not is irrelevant – I’d still drink all their tequila. You should check them out and share the lovin’

Idsredbook

Hella Buzzed

Nanodating

Allergic To Normal

Vagabond Urges

9 Comments

  1. Yay! Participation! Have you read Guide to Getting It On? I know it is a bit vanilla, but they try. And the illustrations are adorable. Unlike my Joy of Sex where the couples look kind of unwashed. But I still secretly love that book. I learned so much about sex from it.

    • No I haven’t read it! I have picked up the karma sutra on occasion however and had to adapt some stuff to include rope 😉

      I also have a huge book at home that I’m going to make a post on soon.

      I received it after I did a talk for 19-28 year old queer gals at ACON here in Sydney about kinky stuff. It’s a book of sex toys. It’s fabulush!

  2. This was great… As usual. But I’m sorry to hear about you and Loki. Relationships can be so trying to get through. I thank God for masturbation!

    Sounds like you’re keeping busy. That’s good, although it sounds exhausting.

    Thanks for plugging my blog!! I really appreciate it.

    Hope things settle down a bit. Nice to see you back on here though. 🙂

    • Thank you Julie 🙂

      Relationships can be very very trying. I need to invest in a new hitachi since I broke my old one but I’ve been dragging my heels.

      It is exhausting but in a good way. Sometimes I think keeping busy is a good thing, other times I wish I didn’t have a life.

      You are very welcome 🙂

      • You are far too clever, intelligent, charming, funny and kinky to not have a life!!! Just take some to stop and breathe occasionally. (Sometimes when I get caught up in a whirlwind of crap and find it hard to be grateful, I think of people who live in Gary, Indiana. (Where Michael Jackson is from.) It’s, a factory town and I think there are steel Mills as well. All I know is, it STINKS TO HIGH HEAVEN! I think that could make me go postal! Point being, I will take a breath and be grateful the air I breathe doesn’t Stink!!! Night sunshine!

  3. I wasn’t even finished reading this and I thought, “Self, we are kindred spirits.” Then I finished and realized it was true! Thanks for the mention! Your writing is amazing.

    • Thank you so much and you’re very welcome.

      I enjoy your writing too, I think you’re right, kindred spirits 🙂

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